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GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE
Christianity
Oasis Ministry
has provided you with this Getting Over Lost Love
study on Getting Over Lost Love which looks at
Getting Over a Lost Love healing and asks is getting over a
lost love possible, how is getting over a lost love done,
what is the
Getting Over a Lost Love message, how can we
begin getting over a lost love and how does the
Getting Over a Lost Love truth enhance our life. Most have experienced a
lost love in one way or another but getting over a lost love
is so very difficult. Lost love can create emotions that
appear to overwhelm our soul and cause many negative changes
in our lives. But getting over a lost love can enhance your
life according to the Bible. Let us seek and find the truth
of getting over a lost love with
Getting Over a Lost Love
message together in this
Getting Over a Lost Love Bible
study, shall we?
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GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE
Is getting over a lost Love possible?
Getting over a lost love is one of the most difficult things a
soul will encounter in life.
People
will tell you that they know just how you feel, but even if they have gone through
the same thing, you sometimes feel that they cannot possibly imagine what you’re
going through.
There is not a single thing they can say that can heal
your broken heart. You feel like you can’t even help yourself.
How can
anybody else possibly help you?
You try and understand why this has
happened to you, but understanding seems so far away, that you don’t
even have the strength to reach out for it.
Some are not even sure that they
want to understand.
GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE STUDY ON
GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE HEALING GIVING
GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE HOPE
GUILT
Those who lose a loved one, oft times feel guilty
within, wondering if maybe there was something more they could have
done to prevent the loss. They regret that they didn’t spend more time
with their loved one. The things they wish they had said
to them and things they wish they would have never said to them … Now
they believe that they will never have the chance to make it right.
The pain is so deep that you
almost feel like you’ve lost your whole life.
There is a giant VOID
within.
You are broken, and it hurts.
Crying has become part of your
routine.
You think you’ll never
be happy again. Sleep is not the same.
Life is just … Not right.
Your thought process begins to affect everyone
around you.
Including the other loved ones in your life.
As time passes ... You have fair days.
But, the bad days far outnumber them.
Whether you have lost a loved one to death or divorce,
either one can be a traumatic experience.
You feel like a part of you
is gone.
Questions constantly come into your mind ...
Why
would God let this happen?
Why did He take them away from you?
What
did I do wrong?
And the most popular ...
GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE TRUTH WITH
GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE MESSAGE
WHY NOW, LORD?
Why did God have to take them
now?
If we could just understand why they were taken when
they were ...
Perhaps, we feel like we could
accept it better and our delicate heart could be on the mend.
Let’s
look at some reasons why.
DELIVERED FROM EVIL
It may be that God didn’t take your loved
one from you, but perhaps He set them free from something that they
were suffering or something that would
have happened if He didn’t.
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Isaiah 57:1-2
The righteous perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart: and merciful
men are taken away,
none considering that the righteous is taken away from the evil to
come. He shall enter into peace:
they shall rest in their beds, each one walking in his uprightness.
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Only God knows what the future holds for us. If
there was something that God didn’t want your loved one to experience,
that may be the reason why.
THE TEST AND TRIAL FACTOR
Another possible reason is ... “The Test and Trial
Factor.”
Have you ever read the Book of Job?
Job was a righteous man, who loved the Lord. One day
when the Angels were in line, waiting to talk to God,
satan
was with them (because he is an Angel himself).
God said, Have you
seen my servant Job? There's nobody like Job on all the earth. He
loves God and turns away from bad. Satan said, of course he does,
because you spoil him, but if you didn’t … He’d curse you.
Job's life was about to change.
God allowed
everything to be taken from Job, except his wife and his life. Job
lost quite an estate … and TEN children. Job, was tested beyond
imagination, and although he questioned why he suffered so much loss,
he held his Faith.
Job proved his love and devotion to the
Lord, and in the end, the Lord rewarded Job with more
children and twice the blessings that he had before.
The things that happen to us and to our loved ones
sometimes don’t make sense to our human minds, but there are sometimes
reasons beyond our understanding that explain why.
We may never know
those reasons, at least not while we’re on this earth, but we must
remain Faithful to God and trust in His will.
Although it may not seem so at the time ...
God never gives us too much to handle.
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1
Corinthians 10:13
There hath no temptation taken
you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not
suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the
temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear
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GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE COUNSELING WITH
GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE HOPE
DEALING WITH DEATH
Most are able to overcome the pain and suffering
within, after the loss of a loved one ... With time.
Others are encaged in a
darkness within and the words of family and friends, tho comforting
... Just do not set them free.
There comes a time when people come face to face
with the fact that they can’t do it alone, and that may even be why you are
here.
We reach a point where we feel helpless and that seeking to
overcome the pain within is hopeless.
We don’t know where to turn
or which way to go.
That’s when it hits us … Our only hope is in the
Lord.
He’s the only one we can truly trust.
We need Him.
Whether you’ve lost a spouse, a child, a sibling, a
companion, a friend, a relative, or even a pet, you CAN be
happy again.
But, where do
we start?
How can we overcome knowing our loved one is DEAD?
My friend ... There is your first problem.
Your loved one is NOT dead.
This means that the souls that pass on from this realm to the next are not dead, but alive in
Abraham’s Bosom.
NOTE:
You can find out more about Abraham's Bosom at the end of this study.
UNDERSTANDING
You may have given up on trying to understand why
your loved one has been taken from you, but understanding what has
become of them, may just be
the answer to mending your heart.
I’d like for you to open your mind and heart to some
things that may bring you closer to the understanding that can heal
your fragile heart concerning those that pass from this realm to the
next ...
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Thessalonians 4:13-18
But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning
them which are asleep,
(Passed
on from this realm to the next)
that ye sorrow not, even as others
which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again,
even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with Him. For
this we say unto you by the Word of the Lord, that we which are alive
and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which
are asleep. For the Lord Himself shall descend from Heaven with a
shout, with the voice of the ArchAngel, and with the trump of God:
and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together WITH
THEM in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air:
and so shall we EVER be with the Lord.
Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
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We are taught not to be sorrowful as tho there is no HOPE.
They are not DEAD and GONE. You WILL see
and be with them again.
Understanding, believing, and trusting that your loved one is truly in
a better place now is vital to your soul. The reward that we hope
for as Christians, the reward we long for and await every day of our
lives is the life that your loved one is experiencing now
To grieve
FOR THEM, is to grieve for their receiving the reward …
The promise,
that we all live and strive for.People always try and console others who lose a loved one by
saying “They’re in a better place now.”
Nothing could be closer to the TRUTH.
WHAT WOULD THEY SAY?
Now, most of you are feeling a lil better
right about now, while others are unable to hear these
shared words cuz the pain is too unbearable.
So, I have a question for YOU.
IF YOU COULD HEAR YOUR LOVED ONE RIGHT
NOW ...
WHAT WOULD THEY SAY TO YOU?
Would they want you to be mourning and
hurting?
OR
Would they say, I love you so much. Please don't cry
anymore.
I am at peace and sooooooo happy. I have no more pain and no
more tears. Rejoice for me and soon we
will be together.
Healing a broken heart takes a long, long time
without understanding.
The more you understand, the faster you will
heal.
SUMMARY
When the loss of a loved one overshadows our minds and
hearts, the words of family and friends, tho comforting ...
Oft times do not seem to have the ability to set one TRULY
free from the overwhelming sorrow within.
The absence of said Spiritual freedom within, can negatively
affect our Faith.
So, what does truly set us FREE?
It is written that ... TRUTH will set you free.
And here is TRUTH.
Even IF it is time for a loved one to sojourn from this
realm to the next for whatever reason that our Heavenly
Father deems is worthy ...
The TRUTH is that our loved one would NOT be dead.
But rather ... Alive in Paradise awaiting a glorious day
when they rise from Paradise and meet Jesus and the Raptured in the
air to live with JESUS in Heaven ... FOREVER.
So, our loved one will be or is in a place that we all long to be
and this TRUTH should bring forth peace within our mind and
heart for them.
This leaves us with one other issue ...
OUR own pain over the loss.
We all know that when we lose this earthly tabernacle (Body)
that we are no longer bound by it's worldly point of view
and will see things from GOD'S view point and this being
TRUTH reveals that our loved ones seeing this TRUTH would be
cheering us on and want us to CARRY ON.
So, in what some may deem as a worst case scenario ...
Which
those who know TRUTH would deem as something to rejoice and
praise the Lord for ...
We are taught to ... Hold on to the Faith and carry on.
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Romans 5:2-4
By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we
stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. And not only so, but
we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh
patience; And patience, experience; and experience, HOPE
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Many others may come to depend upon our Faith.
How do we comfort ourselves, friends, family and those we
encounter who are negatively affected by the passing on of a
loved one?
As it is written ... Comfort 'em with the TRUTH.
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Thessalonians 4:18
Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together WITH
THEM in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we
EVER be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these
words.
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We WILL see em again ...
Keep on keeping on.
NOW WHAT?
GETTING OVER A
LOST LOVE
Even with the understanding of why God has chosen
this time to bring your loved one on their way home, there still
remains a part of you that is missing.
So, how do you fill your empty
heart and your empty home, now that your loved one is gone?
Fill them
with God!
Bring Him into your life like never before!
Get to know Him
better.
You keep asking yourself, What am I going to do?
Find out what
it is that HE wants you to do.
Ask Him to show you something that you can do for
Him … Something far outside of your comfort zone that will make you
feel complete again. Not something simple, but something you can lose
yourself in.
Did you get that?
Lose yourself!
Find HIM!
Maybe you could write a book about your experience
to help others who are going through the same thing, and maybe you’ll
even save others from the same heartache before it happens to them.
Maybe you could fellowship with others who are suffering such a loss and need a hand
of friendship, an ear or shoulder.
Every day, God has a plan for us …
He wants
us to serve, share words of comfort, acts of kindness to perform.
There are places He wants us to be just when someone needs us.
You can
go through life seeing everything as routine … Just another day.
OR
You can keep your eyes open to the opportunities that God sets up for
you.
Then, you can see God working through you, making your life truly
valuable.
LIVE AND LET LOVE
LOVE AND LET LIVE.
My prayer is for
the TRUE peace WHICH PASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING be obtained
and maintained within the hearts of those who know and love,
the lost loved one ... Despite what GOD has planned for HIS
child.
May God's will be done.
There is a Healing path that you can use to help you turn your
mourning into rejoicing. It will help you to discover God’s
plan for you, fill in the void, and continue your life in
happiness.
Your loved one would want that for you too and deep down ... You
KNOW this.
It’s a Healing path for souls with problems of all kinds, and
you will discover THE PATH to healing.
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